My Gynecologist

Just wanting to chat with someone,I'm having problems with my doctor and needing someone to talk with.

Without mentioning his or her

Without mentioning his or her name, tell us what kind of problems you are having and maybe we can help.

Hello, Thank you so much

Hello,

Thank you so much for responding, I would never use his name no matter what ever happens. My problem with this doctor is, and I know this is going to sound very strange,But I feel like he likes me to much. And I know that,I maybe should just find another doctor.But for what ever reason I don't. He always has my appointments scheduled at the end of the day. He does a very thorough examination every time. Sometimes I feel he is exanining me much to thorough. He has always been a very good doctor he takes a very long time talking with me,getting plenty of information. I always have a funny feeling when he is doing my examination.I really think it's just me, I just want someone to talk with. I will be glad to answer any questions you have. You may also e-mail me direct if you like.

Audra

It is possible that your

It is possible that your doctor may "like you too much", however you might not be the only one. He may have the same feelings for some of his other patients as well, and it is possible that he reserves the last appointment of the day for patients he "likes".

It is possible that it's just you, and you just need someone to talk with. I suggest that you edit and delete your e-mail address and talk to people on the forum or through private messages here.

Yes, I believe your right !

Yes, I believe your right !

Whenever I have felt

Whenever I have felt uncomfortable with a dr for whatever reason, I simply cancel my next appointment and find another one.
A lot of women I know prefer female drs for gyn anyway.
Transference? Countertransference? Who knows.
I change hairdressers without explanation if I want to try someone different, and sometimes I change my mind and go back to the first one after a year or two...no big deal.

PS: I'm just saying that if it doesn't feel right, why go along with it?
After all, you used the word "problems" in your first post.

I'm sure your right, Thank

I'm sure your right, Thank you very much for taking the time to respond. I'm starting to believe that I'm making this more difficult than it should me.

Always listen to your

Always listen to your intuition,a doctor/patient relationship is sacred and when the abuse of power happens, it is very devastating- because most of the time it is a he said she said type of scenario, women usually do not come forward.I came forward and reported my reconstructive surgeon, it was the hardest thing I had to do. I trusted him,my family trusted him - the case is under a very extensive medical Board investigation,because he is a very prominent and respected surgeon.His lively-hood might be at stake,if enough evidence is found. So it seems to me ....a wounded medicine man cannot heal, until he heals himself.

Audra Sue Evans

Audra Sue Evans wrote:

Hello,

Thank you so much for responding, I would never use his name no matter what ever happens. My problem with this doctor is, and I know this is going to sound very strange,But I feel like he likes me to much. And I know that,I maybe should just find another doctor.But for what ever reason I don't. He always has my appointments scheduled at the end of the day. He does a very thorough examination every time. Sometimes I feel he is exanining me much to thorough. He has always been a very good doctor he takes a very long time talking with me,getting plenty of information. I always have a funny feeling when he is doing my examination.I really think it's just me, I just want someone to talk with. I will be glad to answer any questions you have. You may also e-mail me direct if you like.

Audra

If his extra thorough examinations make you uncomfortable then you should absolutely find a new doctor. Women's intuition is a powerful thing and should not be ignored lightly.

I hope that everything went

I hope that everything went well Audra, and if you need your posting removed, perhaps Kat would help you with that.

Wouldn't you Kat?

Oh my goodness Audra, You

Oh my goodness Audra,
You must for sure look for a new Doctor. Please and please do not waste time if you do not feel comfortable with this doctor. I am sure most of the Doctors are a true blessing BUT sometimes my dear we need to love our body and take good care of ourselves. We should not allow anyone to use or abuse us.

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