Random acts of Kindness
Today I gave a cosmotologist a huge tip and then bought cloths for a child who had grown out of their cloths and the parent was out of money to buy anymore. Why is it that Christmas is the only time people feel the need to give and why are angle trees only a Christmas event? I can't tell you how good I feel tonight knowing I made a difference in peoples lives and somehow helped out. A child is sleeping in a warm footed sleeeper. I'm not tryig to brag, but there are people out there, who if someone would reach out to them, could keep off of food stamps or put healthy food on the table or keep their house. And I'm not just talking about people who don't have a job for whatever reason. I'm talking about those people who are working and still can't do it, yet can't get any help from the system either. Maybe it's not our place to judge why. Heck, maybe some single mother needs a house repair she dosn't have the skills to do. Maybe someone just needs a smile or a kind word. It dosn't even have to cost anything.
Hugs:
Betty

Giving does feel good.
Giving does feel good.

Glad you're feeling good.
When the terrorists attacked
When the terrorists attacked the hotels that foreigners stay at in Mumbai a few weeks ago, they also attacked the tiny Jewish centre in Mumbai and tortured and killed the rabbi and his pregnant wife.
The group that runs the centre was determined not to let the terrorists win (by spreading hatred and mistrust) when they urged the Jews of Mumbai and everywhere else to "perform random acts of kindness", depriving the terrorists of a victory.
Hi Product; Everything you
Hi Product;
Everything you said is so true. I think that if one person helped another every day, the world would be so different. In the last analysis we will be remembered, not by who we were, but by what we did.
Trust me, I'm not trying to get brownie points here, but you and a lot of others help people on this forum everyday. Some of you bring logic when logic is lacking; some bring gentleness; some explain with clarity things that others either don't see, or don't understand. All of you are so special to everyone who comes here.
I do miss one thing. Wisher stopped writing about what she learned at mass. I always look forward to that. Keep being you Product, you're a kind person and the world seems to be losing its kindness.
Marianna
Betty, selfless giving can
Betty, selfless giving can be such a powerful action. You're right: a smile or kind word goes a long way.
Cristal_Artist wrote: Hi
Hi Product;
Everything you said is so true. I think that if one person helped another every day, the world would be so different. In the last analysis we will be remembered, not by who we were, but by what we did.
Trust me, I'm not trying to get brownie points here, but you and a lot of others help people on this forum everyday. Some of you bring logic when logic is lacking; some bring gentleness; some explain with clarity things that others either don't see, or don't understand. All of you are so special to everyone who comes here.
I do miss one thing. Wisher stopped writing about what she learned at mass. I always look forward to that. Keep being you Product, you're a kind person and the world seems to be losing its kindness.
Marianna
I didnt't know that you looked forward to that Cristal!
Hmmm....what was the sermon about tonight????
I know there was something in the old testament about your body being a temple and not fornicating. (I don't do that).
But, I do put too much food into the old temple...
Then, there was stuff about some guy being called by the Lord, and he said "Here I am, Here I am, Here I am...."
Then, there was the gospel about how John pointed out Jesus to a couple of disciples, and they followed him, and then they got Peter to go see Jesus, (but his name wasn't Peter yet...)
Then there was the sermon, said by the deacon, with a very thick accent, and it was about responding to God when he calls you. (I think that's what it was about - I tried to listen but my mind was drifting a bit, to be honest.)
Lent is coming up soon - I think it starts around February 25th, the priest said.
I don't like the 5 o'clock Mass that much because I prefer to listen to the priest.
(Even though a couple of weeks ago he talked about communicating over the internet, and well, that was a bit embarrassing because I had been joking around a lot, and I had to wonder if Father goes on Ratemds, LOL.)
Then, at the end of the Mass, the priest said that there was some confusion, and he wanted to clarify.
When he sits down after Holy Communion, we are allowed to sit down. We don't have to wait for the deacon to sit down.
I don't think I sat down. I was too busy praying for help to find a GOOD lawyer (one that doesn't play golf, LOL), and of course I prayed for Puzzle and everyone on Ratemds too.
I'll post about stuff next Sunday, just for you Cristal!!
Last year, I kept getting messages from the Sermons, telling me to be strong and continue on, and I have continued on, trusting that God wants me to continue on.
I've even got a Message Book, and I've gotten messages there, and journalled some of them that had special meaning, but lately I stopped doing that, because I don't understand the meaning sometimes.
And sometimes I really don't want to know, and maybe that's what the message is for me tonight. - That I should pay better attention, and listen for God's direction.
Thanks Cristal.
Here's one of the hymns.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rzp83SWRNZw
wishandaprayer wrote: ...I
...I didnt't know that you looked forward to that Cristal!
Yes I do because sometimes it helps me.
Hmmm....what was the sermon about tonight????
I know there was something in the old testament about your body being a temple and not fornicating. (I don't do that).
Why not? You burn a lot of calories fornicating, plus it's fun!
But, I do put too much food into the old temple...
Then, there was stuff about some guy being called by the Lord, and he said "Here I am, Here I am, Here I am...."
Then, there was the gospel about how John pointed out Jesus to a couple of disciples, and they followed him, and then they got Peter to go see Jesus, (but his name wasn't Peter yet...)
Then there was the sermon, said by the deacon, with a very thick accent, and it was about responding to God when he calls you. (I think that's what it was about - I tried to listen but my mind was drifting a bit, to be honest.)
LOL! By this time I'd be asleep, never mind drifting!
Lent is coming up soon - I think it starts around February 25th, the priest said.
I don't like the 5 o'clock Mass that much because I prefer to listen to the priest.
(Even though a couple of weeks ago he talked about communicating over the internet, and well, that was a bit embarrassing because I had been joking around a lot, and I had to wonder if Father goes on Ratemds, LOL.)
Next time you go up for Communion pretend to trip and lift up his vestment...see white? He's not an angel in disguise; he's a golf-playing doctor!
...I'll post about stuff next Sunday, just for you Cristal!!
Keep it short. I hate falling asleep through mass.
Last year, I kept getting messages from the Sermons, telling me to be strong and continue on, and I have continued on, trusting that God wants me to continue on.
Trust God and trust yourself. You know what was done to you and how much you've suffered because of it. Keep fighting until someone does something. Everyone here is behind you 100%.
Here's one of the hymns.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rzp83SWRNZw
Thank you, that was beautiful and uplifting.
Christmas is a time to give
Christmas is a time to give and wish a great person happy b-day, i do give by doing free work at the hosp/ for sick kids or i help at the food back theres a lady whos haveing it hard so i buy her and her kids food to last a month if i see a begger i never say no i do give him money or take him/her to dinner, It puts me one step closer to god and i feel if i take a step maybe they will shine on the next person as for judge i never did cause god can do that my times spend on waking up too the sun shine,I am a lvl 3 umpire and i ump for the kids free this baseball helps to keep them off the streets, Since i hurt my back i have slowed down abit cause right now if i don't look after myself then my kids suffer but i still give,
MisFit
oh oh.
oh oh.
Crap.
Crap.
oopsie.
oopsie.
Cristal_Artist
...I didnt't know that you looked forward to that Cristal!
Yes I do because sometimes it helps me.
Hmmm....what was the sermon about tonight????
I know there was something in the old testament about your body being a temple and not fornicating. (I don't do that).
Why not? You burn a lot of calories fornicating, plus it's fun!
But, I do put too much food into the old temple...
Then, there was stuff about some guy being called by the Lord, and he said "Here I am, Here I am, Here I am...."
Then, there was the gospel about how John pointed out Jesus to a couple of disciples, and they followed him, and then they got Peter to go see Jesus, (but his name wasn't Peter yet...)
Then there was the sermon, said by the deacon, with a very thick accent, and it was about responding to God when he calls you. (I think that's what it was about - I tried to listen but my mind was drifting a bit, to be honest.)
LOL! By this time I'd be asleep, never mind drifting!
Lent is coming up soon - I think it starts around February 25th, the priest said.
I don't like the 5 o'clock Mass that much because I prefer to listen to the priest.
(Even though a couple of weeks ago he talked about communicating over the internet, and well, that was a bit embarrassing because I had been joking around a lot, and I had to wonder if Father goes on Ratemds, LOL.)
Next time you go up for Communion pretend to trip and lift up his vestment...see white? He's not an angel in disguise; he's a golf-playing doctor!
...I'll post about stuff next Sunday, just for you Cristal!!
Keep it short. I hate falling asleep through mass.
Last year, I kept getting messages from the Sermons, telling me to be strong and continue on, and I have continued on, trusting that God wants me to continue on.
Trust God and trust yourself. You know what was done to you and how much you've suffered because of it. Keep fighting until someone does something. Everyone here is behind you 100%.
Here's one of the hymns.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rzp83SWRNZw
Thank you, that was beautiful and uplifting.
Thanks for the laugh Cristal....

I hope that God is watching over me - that's all I can say.
I'm sure God is watching
I'm sure God is watching over you, Wisher!
I also wonder if I misread Misfits post? Is it your birthday? 
Puzzle wrote: I'm sure God
I'm sure God is watching over you, Wisher!
I also wonder if I misread Misfits post? Is it your birthday?
No, not today, but it's coming up - it's on Wednesday.
I didn't see Misfit's post.
LOL, I think Misfit was talking about Jesus' Birthday Puzzle.
I was having a "moment", LOL, when I typed in oopsie and stuff - it was in response to Cristal's post - not Misfit's.
Cristal_Artist wrote: Why
Why not? You burn a lot of calories fornicating, plus it's fun!
What I wanted to say is that I hear that pole dancing is really good exercise and a lot of fun too, but no, LOL - I just can't see doing that.
Next time you go up for Communion pretend to trip and lift up his vestment...see white? He's not an angel in disguise; he's a golf-playing doctor!
What I wanted to say is that I really do have a lot of respect for the majority of doctors, and some of them are in fact angels in disguise.
However, some doctors and lawyers - well, I'd just like to take their balls away from them, plain and simple - because they don't play fair, and in my opinion, the games have got to stop. People are getting seriously hurt, and they just don't give a damn.
Trust God and trust yourself. You know what was done to you and how much you've suffered because of it. Keep fighting until someone does something. Everyone here is behind you 100%.
Thank you Cristal.
As bad as what happened to me, I kept asking myself if somehow I deserved it, and I kept asking myself - what could I have done differently?
(Quite possibly, learned behaviour from being harmed by a pedophile in early childhood, made to feel as though he was o.k., and I wasn't. "It" was an accident; and I was a "bad little girl")
The pedophile continued on being welcomed into our home, and he continued on sexually abusing an untold number of children after me. I didn't even know it was sexual abuse then, and as an adult, I couldn't see it. I thought that I hadn't been cute enough.
Some may be offended by my comparing the two stories, but, in my opinion, they are both stories of abuse of innocents by people with power.
Hindsight is 20/20, but, when you are going through some struggles in life, you don't have 20/20, and you just do the best that you can do at that time. I did the best that I could do. I am putting all of my faith, hope and trust in God, and I am hoping that somehow He will find justice not just for me, but for others as well.
Sorry for hijacking your thread Betty.
No March the 11 is my b_day
No March the 11 is my b_day i'm gettin old i'll be 32 and i seen a little grey hair on my go-te
MisFit wrote: No March the
No March the 11 is my b_day i'm gettin old i'll be 32 and i seen a little grey hair on my go-te
Yeah, me too, but I go for electrolysis on Tuesday.

Misfit, I could never forget
Misfit, I could never forget your birthday, as it's the same as my son Jimmy's birthday! He will be 9. I'm getting old, too. I have to diguise my gray hairs tomorrow. I'll be 32 this year, too, in September. I know some don't think that's old, but the gray hairs tell me different! (and the wrinkles I see trying to appear.)
Wisher! roflmfao.... let us know how that works out for you!
I never had electrolysis before!
MisFit wrote: No March the
No March the 11 is my b_day i'm gettin old i'll be 32 and i seen a little grey hair on my go-te
You'll be "old" at 32? Tell you what, MisFit ... I'll trade your age for mine!
Aww poor MisFit...it it
Aww poor MisFit...it it makes you feel anybetter your are 9 years 3mos and 24 days my senior...My Mom turned 51 today and Dad turns 51 in April. So I'd say your in the meiddle....but definetly not old!
braddly wrote: Aww poor
Aww poor MisFit...it it makes you feel anybetter your are 9 years 3mos and 24 days my senior...My Mom turned 51 today and Dad turns 51 in April. So I'd say your in the meiddle....but definetly not old!
Braddly! Are you saying that your mom is old????
uh possibly ....but no I
uh possibly
....but no I don't think so..Old is nothing until the day you die so if you die at 35 well you were old cause you were never gonna get any older anyway. Truely your only as old as you feel
...Wisher you should know that women on my mothers side have yet to make it to 60...
braddly wrote: Aww poor
Aww poor MisFit...it it makes you feel anybetter your are 9 years 3mos and 24 days my senior...My Mom turned 51 today and Dad turns 51 in April. So I'd say your in the meiddle....but definetly not old!
Oh, gawd, I can't take this anymore!
Where's my gun?
MicOnTheNorthShore
Aww poor MisFit...it it makes you feel anybetter your are 9 years 3mos and 24 days my senior...My Mom turned 51 today and Dad turns 51 in April. So I'd say your in the meiddle....but definetly not old!
Oh, gawd, I can't take this anymore!
Where's my gun?
Is there going to be a mass shooting?

MicOnTheNorthShore
Aww poor MisFit...it it makes you feel anybetter your are 9 years 3mos and 24 days my senior...My Mom turned 51 today and Dad turns 51 in April. So I'd say your in the meiddle....but definetly not old!
Oh, gawd, I can't take this anymore!
Where's my gun?
Missing your old girlfriend?
braddly wrote: uh possibly
uh possibly
....but no I don't think so..Old is nothing until the day you die so if you die at 35 well you were old cause you were never gonna get any older anyway. Truely your only as old as you feel
...Wisher you should know that women on my mothers side have yet to make it to 60...
Wisher, could you possibly spare an extra blanket to cover my legs?
Braddly, did you know that I was clinically dead at age 34?
So, if I was "old" at 34, I must be "ancient", now.
Ah yes, as a friend once told me, I "came back" because I still had "work to do". Heh heh.

MicOnTheNorthShore
uh possibly
....but no I don't think so..Old is nothing until the day you die so if you die at 35 well you were old cause you were never gonna get any older anyway. Truely your only as old as you feel
...Wisher you should know that women on my mothers side have yet to make it to 60...
Wisher, could you possibly spare an extra blanket to cover my legs?
Braddly, did you know that I was clinically dead at age 34?
So, if I was "old" at 34, I must be "ancient", now.
Ah yes, as a friend once told me, I "came back" because I still had "work to do". Heh heh.
Yeah . . . like helping win big money!

wishandaprayer
Aww poor MisFit...it it makes you feel anybetter your are 9 years 3mos and 24 days my senior...My Mom turned 51 today and Dad turns 51 in April. So I'd say your in the meiddle....but definetly not old!
Oh, gawd, I can't take this anymore!
Where's my gun?
Missing your old girlfriend?
What a memory!
Now, you would just have to go and remind me of her!
She gave a new meaning to "Guns 'N Roses"!
abusedemotionally
uh possibly
....but no I don't think so..Old is nothing until the day you die so if you die at 35 well you were old cause you were never gonna get any older anyway. Truely your only as old as you feel
...Wisher you should know that women on my mothers side have yet to make it to 60...
Wisher, could you possibly spare an extra blanket to cover my legs?
Braddly, did you know that I was clinically dead at age 34?
So, if I was "old" at 34, I must be "ancient", now.
Ah yes, as a friend once told me, I "came back" because I still had "work to do". Heh heh.
Yeah . . . like helping win big money!
Oh, I just had a thought on this. While you are whooping it up and celebrating, I'll probably be paid by a visit by the casino's "Public Relations" team, thus resulting in my immediate need of an ER physician and nurses ...
MicOnTheNorthShore
uh possibly
....but no I don't think so..Old is nothing until the day you die so if you die at 35 well you were old cause you were never gonna get any older anyway. Truely your only as old as you feel
...Wisher you should know that women on my mothers side have yet to make it to 60...
Wisher, could you possibly spare an extra blanket to cover my legs?
Braddly, did you know that I was clinically dead at age 34?
So, if I was "old" at 34, I must be "ancient", now.
Ah yes, as a friend once told me, I "came back" because I still had "work to do". Heh heh.
Yeah . . . like helping win big money!
Oh, I just had a thought on this. While you are whooping it up and celebrating, I'll probably be paid by a visit by the casino's "Public Relations" team, thus resulting in my immediate need of an ER physician and nurses ...
Oh c'mon - take one for the team!
Not to worry - I'm a nurse, and I'll bring my rosary.
MicOnTheNorthShore
uh possibly
....but no I don't think so..Old is nothing until the day you die so if you die at 35 well you were old cause you were never gonna get any older anyway. Truely your only as old as you feel
...Wisher you should know that women on my mothers side have yet to make it to 60...
Wisher, could you possibly spare an extra blanket to cover my legs?
Braddly, did you know that I was clinically dead at age 34?
So, if I was "old" at 34, I must be "ancient", now.
Ah yes, as a friend once told me, I "came back" because I still had "work to do". Heh heh.
Yeah . . . like helping win big money!
Oh, I just had a thought on this. While you are whooping it up and celebrating, I'll probably be paid by a visit by the casino's "Public Relations" team, thus resulting in my immediate need of an ER physician and nurses ...
Heck, if Random shows up, you'll have your own "team" there. (Don't forget that Wisher is a nurse!!!)

wishandaprayer
uh possibly
....but no I don't think so..Old is nothing until the day you die so if you die at 35 well you were old cause you were never gonna get any older anyway. Truely your only as old as you feel
...Wisher you should know that women on my mothers side have yet to make it to 60...
Wisher, could you possibly spare an extra blanket to cover my legs?
Braddly, did you know that I was clinically dead at age 34?
So, if I was "old" at 34, I must be "ancient", now.
Ah yes, as a friend once told me, I "came back" because I still had "work to do". Heh heh.
Yeah . . . like helping win big money!
Should I bring the only two of my father's cousins who I know? One's a Jesuit and the other is the former Archdiocese of Vancouver ... just for my Last Rites.
Oh, I just had a thought on this. While you are whooping it up and celebrating, I'll probably be paid by a visit by the casino's "Public Relations" team, thus resulting in my immediate need of an ER physician and nurses ...
Oh c'mon - take one for the team!
Not to worry - I'm a nurse, and I'll bring my rosary.
abusedemotionally
uh possibly
....but no I don't think so..Old is nothing until the day you die so if you die at 35 well you were old cause you were never gonna get any older anyway. Truely your only as old as you feel
...Wisher you should know that women on my mothers side have yet to make it to 60...
Wisher, could you possibly spare an extra blanket to cover my legs?
Braddly, did you know that I was clinically dead at age 34?
So, if I was "old" at 34, I must be "ancient", now.
Ah yes, as a friend once told me, I "came back" because I still had "work to do". Heh heh.
Yeah . . . like helping win big money!
Oh, I just had a thought on this. While you are whooping it up and celebrating, I'll probably be paid by a visit by the casino's "Public Relations" team, thus resulting in my immediate need of an ER physician and nurses ...
Heck, if Random shows up, you'll have your own "team" there. (Don't forget that Wisher is a nurse!!!)
I don't have a clue how to work those paddles though - just thought you should know.
How many here are
How many here are nurses,,,,,, At-coo i have a cold lol
miconthenorthshore
Braddly, did you know that I was clinically dead at age 34? So, if I was "old" at 34, I must be "ancient", now.
But your not dead so....that doesn't make you old...uh your new again...lol
braddly
Braddly, did you know that I was clinically dead at age 34? So, if I was "old" at 34, I must be "ancient", now.
But your not dead so....that doesn't make you old...uh your new again...lol
Braddly, that was an excellent extraction! Okay, I'm new again. I guess that makes me a born-again something ... I just have to figure out that "something".
miconthenorthshore
something ... I just have to figure out that "something".
Something what?
braddly
something ... I just have to figure out that "something".
Something what?
Something-anything! LOL
Product,you are one special
Product,you are one special lady,too bad there's not more like you.
P.S. I love the picture of your new avatar. I see the angel is getting bigger and more beautiful than ever.
Truth goes a long way,and it shines here for sure. Many many blessings Product.

Thanks Doodle and all. This
Thanks Doodle and all. This is the grandbaby at nine months. First the picture the Avatar came from. I know this is going to get Crystal moving along on the little one thing. LOL
And yes, she is standing at 9 months!
I handed her the remote control for the tv this weekend and she was actually able to find the button that changed the channels. She was so excited to see she could do that! Pushing buttons is a really exciting thing for her. Especially when she sees things happens. LOL
Hugs:
Betty
Twain wrote: When the
When the terrorists attacked the hotels that foreigners stay at in Mumbai a few weeks ago, they also attacked the tiny Jewish centre in Mumbai and tortured and killed the rabbi and his pregnant wife.
The group that runs the centre was determined not to let the terrorists win (by spreading hatred and mistrust) when they urged the Jews of Mumbai and everywhere else to "perform random acts of kindness", depriving the terrorists of a victory.
Wonderful advice Twain. I've found when someone is really angry often a hug or an "I love you" will either quickly defuse them or send them on their way. I have my bike and helmet but the weather hasn't been favorable to go riding very much. Have taken it out a couple of times and it is much easier on the foot.
Hugs:
Betty
Betty, she is lovely!!!
Betty, she is lovely!!! Thank you for sharing her with us! I love babies.
It's amazing how fast they grow. It seems like last week you were telling us of her arrival! I just love her hair and that little smile she has, too. 
Babies make me smile, and
Babies make me smile, and just make me feel happy. Thanks for posting the pictures and making me feel happy. She's a doll!
Product of USA wrote: I
I handed her the remote control for the tv this weekend and she was actually able to find the button that changed the channels. She was so excited to see she could do that! Pushing buttons is a really exciting thing for her. Especially when she sees things happens. LOL
That way, when the time comes, she'll know what makes men tick.
Cute kid.
Your granddaughter is
Your granddaughter is getting so grown-up!!
It's really amazing how quickly they go from being utterly helpless and in a blink of an eye they are striving to be mobile.
She is very special, Betty.
I haven't been around in a
I haven't been around in a couple of days, so I'm going to answer a bunch of people.
Product,
Your granddaughter gets more gorgeous with each new picture.
Twain,
I did know that about Chabad. The rabbi's wife and I had mutual friends, although I didn't know her, the family's loss of life was personal to me because it was personal to my friends.
Misfit and Puzzle,
Start dying before anyone notices. That's what I did. I changed my hair color entirely, so no one realized I did it to cover gray. And no, Elvis, the curtains and the carpet do not match.
Bradley,
You are young enough to be my daughter. I am going to cry myself to sleep tonight.
Mic, AE, and Wisher,
You should all cry yourselves to sleep tonight, too.
rockygirl wrote: Mic, AE,
Mic, AE, and Wisher,
You should all cry yourselves to sleep tonight, too.
What's the point?

It won't make me any younger.
Besides, if I cry myself to sleep tonight, I'll end up with bags under my eyes tomorrow and will DEFINITELY look years older!!
abusedemotionally
Mic, AE, and Wisher,
You should all cry yourselves to sleep tonight, too.
What's the point?
It won't make me any younger.
Besides, if I cry myself to sleep tonight, I'll end up with bags under my eyes tomorrow and will DEFINITELY look years older!!
No kidding - I'd rather laugh.

I was e-mailed a middle aged song - I'll e-mail to AE, and maybe she can get it up.
But - hopefully it doesn't make you laugh - cuz -
Then there's damn laugh lines.
Oh well...
Yesterday while shopping
Yesterday while shopping there was a elderly man whose car would not start.
It was cold so I took him home. Then I went back and got my hubby and we boosted the car and brought it home to the people.
They would not let us leave the house without supper so we ate and ate and ate.
My god they kept pumping the food into us. They were so grateful.
Then they gave us so much home made baking.
They offered us money but we would not take it. We could have used the $ 100 but we decided not to take it.
I feel so much better knowing they are safe in their home.
MicOnTheNorthShore
Braddly, did you know that I was clinically dead at age 34?
Mic, Did you have any unique experiences during this time?
She is precious
She is precious Product,thank you for sharing.
Out2Pasteur
Braddly, did you know that I was clinically dead at age 34?
Mic, Did you have any unique experiences during this time?
No, unfortunately, none of the great white light at the end of the tunnel sort of thing. I simply lost consciousness and hit the floor, like someone had slipped me a mickey. Other than feeling as though I was at Day Three of the flu (in three hours) combined with a sense of fear that I'll likely not soon forget, I felt nothing. I was told that nothing was the matter with me, to go home, and that's when the lights went out. I can only guess that my heart had already stopped, and when the lack of oxygen caught up with me, it's was beddy-bye time!